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GENERAL INFORMATION
- How does DivorceWriter work?
- How do I make changes to my documents after receiving my self-prepared DivorceWriter package?
- How long will it take to receive my documents?
- What is the online interview?
- I want to use DivorceWriter to prepare my own divorce documents. What do I do next?
- Can I make changes to my documents after I receive them?
- What happens after I receive my DivorceWriter documents?
- Does DivorceWriter provide documents for annulments?
- Will DivorceWriter work in my state?
- What is included in my DivorceWriter package?
- What do I do after I receive my documents?
- Why is DivorceWriter the best?
- How does DivorceWriter work?
- How much does DivorceWriter cost?
- How do I change my password?
- How do I make changes to my existing DivorceWriter account?
- Why is DivorceWriter the best?
- Can I use DivorceWriter in my state?
- I finished the online interview. How long will it take to receive my documents?
- Are court filing fees included in the fee?
- How much does DivorceWriter cost?
- Are DivorceWriter documents legal?
- Will DivorceWriter documents work in my state and/or in my situation?
- What if I need additional documents that were not included in my DivorceWriter package?
- Will my documents be completed or will I have to fill them out myself when I receive them?
DIVORCE FILING PROCEDURES
- What happens after I receive my self-prepared Virginia DivorceWriter package?
- What are the basic steps to getting a divorce in Virginia?
- How much is the filing fee in Virginia?
- What documents are included in the self-prepared Virginia DivorceWriter package?
- What are the Virginia residency requirements for filing for divorce?
- What are the signature requirements for the documents I will receive?
- How long does it usually take to finalize a divorce in Virginia?
- How do I serve my spouse with the divorce papers in Virginia?
- Where do I file the divorce documents in Virginia?
- Will either of us be required to attend a court hearing?
- Do we have to be separated to get a divorce in Virginia?
- What are the grounds for filing for divorce in Virginia?
- Can I change my name in Virginia divorce proceedings?
- What is a corroborating witness?
- What if my spouse and I don't live in the same state?
- Do I have to divorce in the state where I was married?
- Do I have to have my signature notarized on any documents?
- Do any documents require notarization?
- Can the wife change her name back during the divorce?
- Do I have to list my Social Security Number?
- What documents will I receive?
CUSTODY, VISITATION, AND SUPPORT
- How is child support calculated in Virginia?
- What if my spouse and I have agreed to a child support amount that is different from the standard amount?
- What if we already have an existing/prior child support order?
- Will we be able to customize our documents to fit our specific custody and visitation arrangement?
- What are the different types of custody in Virginia?
- What is the difference between child support and spousal support?
- We have agreed that one spouse will pay spousal support to the other. What are some options?
- What is an Income Deduction Order?
- Can we use DivorceWriter if we have children?
- We have children. Can I still use DivorceWriter?
- What if we each will have primary physical custody of at least one child?
- Can we specify how we will claim our child(ren) for income tax purposes?
- Do I have to pay income tax on spousal support payments that I receive?
- We have received our documents, but have decided that we do not want any parenting time schedule. Is this possible?
- Is spousal support commonly awarded?
- Why do I keep getting an error for holidays and special occasions?
DEBTS AND PROPERTY
- We want to transfer real estate into only one spouse's name. Do we need a Quit Claim Deed?
- What options do we have for our real estate?
- Will we have the option to divide one or more retirement plans?
- Can we divide one or more retirement plans?
- Can we divide/list as many items of personal property as we want?
- Can we divide as many items of personal property as we want?
- Can we divide/list as many debts as we want?
- Do I need to list the legal description of my real estate?
- Can I receive a portion of my spouse's retirement plan even though his/her retirement is several years away?
- We are each going to be liable for a percentage of one or more of our debts. How do we enter the information?
- Do we have to list the property we've agreed to divide?
- Do we have to list the items of property we've agreed to divide?
- What if I don't know if I have debts to list?
- What if I don't know if I have property to list?
- Do we have to list the debts we have agreed to divide?
- What if I don't know if I have property to list?
- What if I don't know if I have debts to list?
- Do we have to list the debts we've agreed to divide?
SPECIAL CIRCUMSTANCES
- What if one spouse is in the military?
- What if one spouse is living in a foreign country?
- What if I have an out of state driver’s license or no license at all?
- What if my spouse and I don't live in the state shown on this page?
- What if my spouse is in the military?
- What if my spouse is unwilling to sign the divorce documents?
- My spouse is currently incarcerated. What address do I use?
- I received my DivorceWriter package today, but I'm not sure I want to file for divorce right away. How how long are these papers good for?
- My spouse is currently incarcerated. Can we still use DivorceWriter?
- I am not sure my marriage was legal. Do I even need a divorce?
- How do we get documents notarized in a foreign country?
- I can't find my spouse. Can I still use DivorceWriter?
ADDITIONAL RESOURCES
- Where can I find the full-text version of the Virginia divorce statutes online?
- Where can I find additional help?
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GENERAL INFORMATION
How does DivorceWriter work? First, complete the basic pre-purchase portion of the online interview. Then, set up your DivorceWriter account and enter your payment information. Complete the remainder of the online interview, which asks for additional information regarding your property, debts, children (if any), etc., and click on "submit."

Our automated system will transfer the information to forms specific to the state where the divorce will be filed. Your completed self-prepared DivorceWriter package is then printed and shipped to you via priority mail along with written procedures for signing and filing with the Clerk.
How do I make changes to my documents after receiving my self-prepared DivorceWriter package? If you want to make changes to any of your documents after receiving them in the mail, you have two options:
  1. Log into your account at https://www.divorcewriter.com/Home_Login.asp and make changes to your online interview responses. Then, contact customer service at info@divorcewriter.com to obtain copies of your updated documents at no extra charge. At that time, you can choose to either have them e-mailed to you or shipped via priority mail; or
  2. Log into your account and email your documents to yourself using the e-mail button on the review page. Customize as needed and print.
How long will it take to receive my documents? After completing the easy online interview and clicking the "submit" button, your DivorceWriter document package will be shipped to you the next business day via Priority Mail. Depending on your location, Priority Mail may take 3 to 4 business days for delivery.
What is the online interview? In as little as 10-15 minutes, the online interview allows you to enter the information needed to complete your divorce forms, all in the privacy of your own home. After completing the online interview, simply transfer your information to our automated system for printing and shipping with just one click.
I want to use DivorceWriter to prepare my own divorce documents. What do I do next? To get started, click on "Start the Process" above. You will be taken to our online interview where, in as little as 10-15 minutes, you can enter the information needed to complete your divorce forms. After completing the online interview, simply transfer your information to our automated system for printing and shipping with just one click.
Can I make changes to my documents after I receive them? Yes. We realize that your circumstances may change after you receive your DivorceWriter package. DivorceWriter offers easy options for making changes and obtaining new documents at NO ADDITIONAL CHARGE. Simply contact our Customer Service by telephone or e-mail.
What happens after I receive my DivorceWriter documents? Just follow the step-by-step instructions included with your DivorceWriter package, which provide detailed information on signing your documents as well as important practical tips to help you have a smooth, stress-free filing process.
Does DivorceWriter provide documents for annulments? No. DivorceWriter does not currently provide documents for annulments.
Will DivorceWriter work in my state? Each state has its own divorce forms, which tend to vary a lot in appearance and content. DivorceWriter forms are state-specific and designed for acceptance only in the state of filing selected by the customer.
What is included in my DivorceWriter package? Each package contains the completed forms needed to get a divorce in your state, including step-by-step state-specific filing instructions.
What do I do after I receive my documents? Simply follow the step-by-step filing procedures included with your DivorceWriter documents, which include how and when to sign and file all documents as well as important practical procedural information to help you have a smooth, stress-free filing process.
Why is DivorceWriter the best?
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Customer serviceExceptional customer service by phone or e-mail.
How does DivorceWriter work?
  1. Complete the pre-buy portion of the online interview.
  2. After purchase you will have a chance to review your answers and provide any other details such as decisions regarding property and/or any minor children. When you are satisfied, submit your interview for printing.
  3. DivorceWriter will print and mail you your documents and filing instructions. You will be able to login and access your account at any time for up to a year to make any changes if needed.
How much does DivorceWriter cost? The DivorceWriter fee is just $149.
How do I change my password? To change your password you must first log back into your account using the login section in the upper right hand corner of this page. Then on the Review page of your online interview, select the "EDIT" tab next to "Account Email." From here you can update your password.
How do I make changes to my existing DivorceWriter account? If you already have a DivorceWriter account and need to make changes to your online interview responses, you may log in to your account here: www.divorcewriter.com/Home_Login.asp

Why is DivorceWriter the best? For just $149, DivorceWriter offers a quick and easy way to create your own divorce documents, ready-to-sign and file in your state. While other online offerings cost up to twice as much, our 100% money-back guarantee, HackerSafe™ monitoring, and "A" rating with the Better Business Bureau make DivorceWriter a safe choice and a great value.
Can I use DivorceWriter in my state? DivorceWriter offers documents for the following states: Alabama, Arizona, Arkansas, California, Colorado, Florida, Georgia, Illinois, Indiana, Kentucky, Maryland, Massachusetts, Michigan, Minnesota, Nevada, New Jersey, New York, North Carolina, Ohio, Oklahoma, Oregon, Pennsylvania, South Carolina, Tennessee, Texas, Virginia, Washington, and Wisconsin. If your documents are not accepted in your county (or parish), you get your money back--100% guarantee.
I finished the online interview. How long will it take to receive my documents? DivorceWriter promptly ships your document package to you via Priority Mail the next business day. Priority Mail typically takes 3-4 business days.
Are court filing fees included in the fee? The DivorceWriter price does NOT include the filing fee charged by the court clerk when you file for divorce. Fees can vary from state to state and county to county, but typically range from $100 to $400.
How much does DivorceWriter cost? For only $149, you will receive all of the documents needed to get a divorce in your state. Step-by-step filing instructions for your state are also included at no additional charge.
Are DivorceWriter documents legal? DivorceWriter's goal is to provide self-help divorce documents. However, DivorceWriter is not a law firm and only lawyers are allowed to issue an opinion regarding the legality of a document and its applicability to your specific circumstances. If you have any doubts as to the applicability of your DivorceWriter purchase to your situation, you may wish to seek the advice of a lawyer licensed to practice law in your jurisdiction.

DivorceWriter offers a full refund if your documents are not accepted by the Court.
Will DivorceWriter documents work in my state and/or in my situation? DivorceWriter's goal is to provide self-help divorce documents. However, DivorceWriter is not a law firm and only lawyers are allowed to issue an opinion regarding the legality of a document and its applicability to your specific circumstances. If you have any doubts as to the applicability of your DivorceWriter purchase to your situation, you may wish to seek the advice of a lawyer licensed to practice law in your jurisdiction. DivorceWriter offers a full refund if your documents are not accepted by the Court.
What if I need additional documents that were not included in my DivorceWriter package? Contact customer service at info@divorcewriter.com with the name or form number of the the document(s) you need. We have many supplemental documents available that can be emailed to you for immediate printing.
Will my documents be completed or will I have to fill them out myself when I receive them? For the most part, your DivorceWriter documents arrive completed with the information that you provide in the interview, ready to sign and file with your local court. There are some things you will need to write in by hand such as the date that you complete a filing step. Also, some states require that each party fill out a personal financial affidavit/disclosure. If required, these forms will be provided, one for each spouse to complete separately.
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DIVORCE FILING PROCEDURES
What happens after I receive my self-prepared Virginia DivorceWriter package? Along with your self-prepared Virginia DivorceWriter package, you will receive written procedures for signing documents and filing with the Clerk. The written procedures are state-specific and include the address and telephone number of the Circuit Court Clerk for the county of filing selected by the customer.
What are the basic steps to getting a divorce in Virginia? 1) File the Complaint with the Circuit Court Clerk and pay the filing fee of approximately $100.00-$200.00.
2) File the remaining documents with the Clerk after they have been signed by you and your spouse.
3) The spouse who filed for divorce attends a hearing with a corroborating witness. After both have given testimony, the Judge signs the Final Decree of Divorce of Marriage, which ends the marriage.
How much is the filing fee in Virginia? The filing fee charged by the Court is NOT included in the DivorceWriter price. The fee for filing for divorce in Virginia varies from county to county, but is typically $100.00-$200.00.
What documents are included in the self-prepared Virginia DivorceWriter package? In addition to Virginia filing procedures, your self-prepared Virginia DivorceWriter package will include:
  • Complaint
  • Property Settlement and Separation Agreement
  • Acceptance/Waiver of Service of Process
  • Request for Ore Tenus Hearing
  • Final Decree (to resume a former last name)
  • Addendum for Protected Identifying
Customers with minor and/or legally dependent children will also receive:
  • UCCJEA Affidavit
  • Child Support Worksheet
In the online interview you will also be able to select a Name Change Order, Income Deduction Order, and/or Waiver of Rights Under the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act (if the Defendant is active duty in the military).
What are the Virginia residency requirements for filing for divorce? To obtain a divorce in Virginia, one of the spouses must have lived in Virginia for at least six (6) months before the day the divorce is filed. Virginia Code Sec. 20-97

The county of filing may be:
  • The county in which the spouses last resided together;
  • The county where the defendant resides, if the defendant is a resident of Virginia;
  • The county or city where the plaintiff resides, if the Defendant is a nonresident of Virginia.
What are the signature requirements for the documents I will receive? The state-specific filing procedures included in the DivorceWriter package indicate which documents need to be signed and which documents, if any, require notarization. Some documents will require the signatures of both spouses. When notarization is required, a separate notary block is provided for each spouse, so that it is not necessary for notarization to occur at the same time or place.
How long does it usually take to finalize a divorce in Virginia? In a no-fault Virginia divorce, the spouses must be separated for the required amount of time before they file for divorce--one (1) year if the spouses have minor or legally dependent children together or six (6) months if they do not. Beyond that pre-filing requirement, an uncontested divorce in Virginia, where both spouses agree on all issues and are willing to sign the necessary documents, can be completed in as little as three to six weeks from the divorce filing date, depending on how quickly the Clerk can schedule the divorce hearing.
How do I serve my spouse with the divorce papers in Virginia? A defendant may accept service of process by signing an Acceptance/Waiver in front of a Notary Public. This document has the same effect as if it had been served upon the defendant by a person authorized to serve process. The filing of an Acceptance/Waiver bearing Defendant's notarized signature allows the Court to finalize the divorce without any further contact with the Defendant. Virginia Code Sec. 20-99.1:1. In either case, the Defendant must sign the document after the Plaintiff has filed for divorce.
Where do I file the divorce documents in Virginia? In Virginia, divorces are filed at the Circuit Court Clerk's office.
Will either of us be required to attend a court hearing? Yes. The spouse that filed for divorce (Plaintiff) is required to attend an Ore Tenus hearing. He or she must bring a corroborating witness, other than Plaintiff or Defendant, to testify briefly to basic facts concerning the Plaintiff's marriage.
Do we have to be separated to get a divorce in Virginia? The separation date is the day that the spouses began living apart without cohabitation and without interruption.

To be separated, the parties must have mutually agreed that they are no longer living together as husband and wife and neither must have any intent to reconcile. This does not necessarily mean separate households, but if both spouses remain living in the same home, separation may be more difficult to prove. If the spouses chose to remain under one roof while living separate and apart, Plaintiff will generally need at least one independent witness, such as a friend or family member who visits the home frequently, to testify that the spouses have been living separate and apart. The legal requirement for living separate and apart before filing requires at least separate sleeping arrangements and a lack of any physical relationship during the entire separation period--one year for spouses who have minor or legally dependent children together and six months for those that do not.

Any additional questions regarding the separation requirement should be directed to an attorney licensed to practice law in your jurisdiction.
What are the grounds for filing for divorce in Virginia? The two most common grounds are no-fault divorces based upon either a six (6) month separation or a one (1) year separation, depending on whether the spouses have minor children together. Spouses that have minor children together may file for divorce once they have lived separate and apart without any cohabitation and without interruption for one (1) year. Spouses with no minor children together may file for divorce once they have lived separately and apart without cohabitation and without interruption for six (6) months and have entered into a separation agreement.

Note that in any no-fault divorce you and your spouse must have been separated for the required amount of time prior to filing for divorce. For more information on grounds for divorce in Virginia, see Virginia Code Sec. 20-91 and Virginia Code Sec. 20-95. If you intend to file for divorce on a ground other than no-fault, DivorceWriter may not be an option.
Can I change my name in Virginia divorce proceedings? In Virginia, a spouse is entitled to resume either a maiden name or a former name through the divorce proceedings. The Clerk will charge an additional fee for recording a name change, which usually ranges between $120.00-$150.00. Virginia Code Sec. 20-121.4
What is a corroborating witness? Plaintiff is required to bring a corroborating witness to the ore tenus hearing. In the alternative, in counties that allow depositions to be filed in lieu of a hearing, the corroborating witness will sign a deposition in front of a Notary Public swearing to the same facts that he or she would have testified to at a hearing. If your Clerk requests depositions, DivorceWriter will provide them upon request a no additional charge. The Clerk will advise you if depositions are required.

The corroborating witness can be any adult, other than Plaintiff or Defendant, who is at least 18 years of age and who has direct knowledge of the matters concerning the marriage of the Plaintiff and Defendant such as whether they are indeed living separate and apart. His or her knowledge must be based on something more than the information given to the witness in preparation for the hearing/deposition.

The filing procedures included in your DivorceWriter package will include more information on the corroborating witness requirement.
What if my spouse and I don't live in the same state? As long as one spouse meets the residency requirements for the state where the divorce will be filed, it does not matter that the other spouse lives in a different state.
Do I have to divorce in the state where I was married? No. You can divorce in any state where you or your spouse meet the divorce residency requirements.
Do I have to have my signature notarized on any documents? The state-specific filing instructions you will receive with your DivorceWriter package indicate when and where to sign documents and which documents, if any, require notarization. If notarization is ever required, a separate notary block is provided for each spouse, so that it is not necessary for notarization to occur at the same time or place.
Do any documents require notarization? The filing instructions included with your DivorceWriter package will provide additional information if any documents require notarization.
Can the wife change her name back during the divorce? Yes, the wife may restore her name to the name she had before the marriage took place. If a name change is desired, the necessary information will be requested in the Additional Details portion of the DivorceWriter online interview.
Do I have to list my Social Security Number? A missing Social Security Number will cause a yellow warning to appear when you reach the end of this online interview. Unlike red errors, yellow warnings do not need to be corrected to submit your documents for printing.
What documents will I receive? Each DivorceWriter package includes all of the documents needed to obtain a divorce in your state, ready to sign and file. You will also receive easy to understand, step-by-step instructions for filing for divorce in your state.
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CUSTODY, VISITATION, AND SUPPORT
How is child support calculated in Virginia? Based on the information provided by the customer when completing this online interview, a computer generated Child Support Worksheet is automatically created and sent to the customer as part of the DivorceWriter package.

Additional information on child support in Virginia is available at: Virginia Code Sec. 20-108.2.
What if my spouse and I have agreed to a child support amount that is different from the standard amount? See Virginia Code Sec. 20-108.1, which provides a list of 14 different factors, one or more of which may be used to justify a child support amount that is different than the guideline amount.

The DivorceWriter online interview shows you the child support calculation under the guidelines. Then, the customer chooses whether to use the guideline calculation or to deviate from that calculation by entering a different child support amount as well a reason for using a different amount.
What if we already have an existing/prior child support order? Customers who already have a child support order issued by a Court have the option to enter that information in this portion of the interview. In order to list a prior support order, the customer can do the following:
  • Select “no” to using the payment calculation;
  • Enter the existing support amount in the space provided for monthly payment amount; and
  • Enter the reason for deviating from the state calculation.
Note that the information will be transferred to the applicable documents exactly as it is entered by the customer. Generally, you will also be expected to staple one copy of the prior child support order to each copy of the Settlement Agreement (sometimes called a Separation Agreement) that you will file with the Court later in the divorce process.
Will we be able to customize our documents to fit our specific custody and visitation arrangement? DivorceWriter accommodates parents who want to share joint legal custody while designating one parent to have primary physical custody of the children.

Choose to customize as little or as much as you need.
  • Create a detailed schedule for vacations, holidays, and special occasions, including beginning and end times, or choose to keep your regular schedule at all times.
  • List your parenting schedule priorities to resolve potential conflicts before they arise.
  • Designate the amount of time each parent will spend with the child(ren).
What are the different types of custody in Virginia? The following are examples of joint custody:
  • Joint legal custody where both parents retain joint responsibility for the care and control of the child and joint authority to make decisions concerning the child even though the child's primary residence may be with only one parent;
  • Joint physical custody where both parents share physical and custodial care of the child; OR
  • Any combination of joint legal and joint physical custody which the court deems to be in the best interest of the child.

With sole custody, on the other hand, one parent retains responsibility for the care and control of a child and has primary authority to make decisions concerning the child. Virginia Code Sec. 20-124.1
What is the difference between child support and spousal support? Spousal support is paid to one spouse by the other for the support and care of the receiving spouse. Child support, on the other hand, is paid to one parent by the other for the support and care of dependent children
We have agreed that one spouse will pay spousal support to the other. What are some options? Two common ways for one spouse to receive spousal support payments from the other are (1) monthly payments for a set duration or (2) a one-time lump sum payment.
What is an Income Deduction Order? If you or your spouse wants to have child support payments withheld from the paycheck of the parent that must pay support, an Income Deduction Order must be filed and sent to the employer by the Court. This document orders the employer to withhold support payments and send them to the Virginia Department of Social Services Division of Child Support Enforcement.

If no Income Deduction Order is issued, the payor parent will make the payments to the Division of Child Support Enforcement directly without the income withholding.
Can we use DivorceWriter if we have children? Even couples with minor children can prepare their own documents using DivorceWriter.
We have children. Can I still use DivorceWriter? Yes, you can use DivorceWriter to create your divorce forms even if you have children. The online interview includes tools for creating a Parenting Plan and requesting child support if needed.
What if we each will have primary physical custody of at least one child? DivorceWriter can accommodate split custody situations by allowing customers to select joint legal and physical custody. Then, in the box(es) provided, the customer indicates with which child(ren) the mother will have more actual parenting time and with which child(ren) the one father with have more actual parenting time. If you need further customization, DivorceWriter will provide you with a copy of your settlement agreement and/or parenting plan in Word format so that you can edit those documents further to meet the needs of your situation.

If necessary, you can also deviate to a child support amount that is different from the guideline amount. More information on child support is available in the Help Topics located in the child support portion of this online interview.
Can we specify how we will claim our child(ren) for income tax purposes? The DivorceWriter online interview allows you to designate which spouse will claim your minor children as dependents for purposes of federal and state income tax.
Do I have to pay income tax on spousal support payments that I receive? For federal income tax purposes, spousal support is commonly considered taxable income for the receiving spouse and is also tax-deductible for the spouse that pays it. However, when a written provision is included in a settlement agreement stating that the payments are not included in the gross income of the recipient spouse nor deductible from the income of the payor spouse, you are often able to avoid any federal income tax consequences for either party.

If you have any questions regarding the tax consequences of spousal support, you may wish to contact an attorney. More information is also available at: www.irs.com

Child support is NEVER taxable income to the parent that receives it nor is it ever tax-deductible for the party that pays it.
We have received our documents, but have decided that we do not want any parenting time schedule. Is this possible? The DivorceWriter online interview, which you completed previously, was designed to accommodate the most common parenting time (visitation) arrangements. However, if those options did not meet your needs or, if you and your spouse do not wish to specify any parenting plan at all, DivorceWriter will e-mail your documents to you upon request at no additional charge in Word format so that you can customize the parenting time portions yourself.

DivorceWriter customer service cannot assist you in customizing your documents. If you have any legal questions on customizing your divorce papers, you may need to contact a lawyer licensed to practice law in the applicable jurisdiction.
Is spousal support commonly awarded? Less than 10% of DivorceWriter customers choose to include spousal support in their divorces.
Why do I keep getting an error for holidays and special occasions? For each holiday you must mark "Wife" or "Husband."  In addition you must also mark "Even," "Odd" or "Every" to specify which years the selected parent will spend with the child(ren) for each individual holiday.

Examples:
  • Christmas Day:  If you select "Wife" and "Even" then the child(ren) will spend Christmas Day with the wife on the even numbered years.
  • Father's Day:  If you select "Husband" and "Every" then the child(ren) will spend every Father's Day with the husband.
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DEBTS AND PROPERTY
We want to transfer real estate into only one spouse's name. Do we need a Quit Claim Deed? Generally, if you want to transfer jointly held real estate into the name of only one spouse, or if one spouse has real estate that is being transferred into the name of the other spouse, you will need to execute a Quit Claim Deed. Then, the Quit Claim Deed is filed, or recorded, with the County Clerk (Parish Clerk) or Register of Deeds.

DivorceWriter cannot provide Quit Claim Deeds. If you have any questions about real estate transfers or about Quit Claim Deeds, you may need to contact an attorney.
What options do we have for our real estate? The DivorceWriter provides an array of options for disposing of your real estate, including:
  • Designating responsibility for any mortgage(s) and other liabilities related to the property;
  • Buying-out your spouse with a cash settlement;
  • Designating one spouse to be responsible for the sale or share the responsibility equally;
  • Assigning a set number of months to complete the sale of property;
  • Listing one spouse as the receipient of the proceeds of the sale or assign a set percentage of proceeds, if any, to each spouse;
  • Designating one spouse to pay the monthly mortgage, taxes, and repairs pending sale or share the responsibility for these expenses equally.
Will we have the option to divide one or more retirement plans? The DivorceWriter online interview allows spouses who have agreed to split one or more retirement plans to indicate the exact percentage that each spouse will receive of the retirement plan.

DivorceWriter cannot provide legal advice and cannot provide you with a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO). Contact an attorney and/or the retirement plan administrator for assistance in drafting a QDRO.
Can we divide one or more retirement plans? The DivorceWriter online interview allows spouses who have agreed to split one or more retirement plans to indicate the exact percentage that each spouse will receive of the retirement plan.

DivorceWriter cannot provide legal advice and cannot provide you with a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO). Contact an attorney and/or the retirement plan administrator for assistance in drafting a QDRO.
Can we divide/list as many items of personal property as we want? Choose to list all, some, or no property. The customer decides which property, if any, to list, although some courts require that at least real estate, vehicles, retirement accounts, property with titles, and/or other valuable property be listed. Spouses who have agreed to split one or more pieces of personal property can make a new entry for each spouse for each item to be divided, and then indicate the exact percentage that each spouse will receive.
Can we divide as many items of personal property as we want? Choose to list all, some, or no property. The customer decides which property, if any, to list, although some courts require that at least real estate, vehicles, retirement accounts, property with titles, and/or other valuable property be listed.
Can we divide/list as many debts as we want? Choose to list all, some, or no debts. The customer decides which debts, if any, to list, although some courts require debts related to real estate, vehicles, property with titles, and/or other valuable property to be listed as well as joint debts.
Do I need to list the legal description of my real estate? It is generally sufficient to just list the physical address of the property (street, city, state, zip), but some customers also list the legal description, which can be found on the deed and/or mortgage documents.
Can I receive a portion of my spouse's retirement plan even though his/her retirement is several years away? The most common way for one spouse to secure the right to a portion of the other spouse's retirement plan upon his/her retirement is through a Qualified Domestic Relations Order, or QDRO. To obtain a QDRO, contact your spouse's human resources or personnel office who will be able to put you in contact with the retirement plan administrator. Commonly, the plan administrator will provide you with a standard QDRO to complete and file with the Court.

DivorceWriter cannot provide you with a QDRO. Contact an attorney and/or the retirement plan administrator for assistance in drafting a QDRO.
We are each going to be liable for a percentage of one or more of our debts. How do we enter the information? If you are each going to be responsible for a percentage of a debt, make one entry for each spouse for each individual debt to be divided and indicate the percentage of responsibility for each spouse. Many judges will reject settlement agreements that do not contain the last four digits of an account number so you may wish to enter that information here as well.
Do we have to list the property we've agreed to divide? About 50% of DivorceWriter customers list property in the online interview. The property listed will appear on the settlement agreement that is included with your DivorceWriter document package. If no property is listed, the settlement agreement will indicate that there is no property to be divided.
Do we have to list the items of property we've agreed to divide? About 50% of DivorceWriter customers choose to list one or more items of property.
What if I don't know if I have debts to list? If you aren't sure whether you need to list any debts, select "yes" so that you have an opportunity to reconsider this decision in the "Additional Details" portion of the interview.
What if I don't know if I have property to list? If you aren't sure whether you need to list any property, select "yes" so that you have an opportunity to reconsider this decision in the "Additional Details" portion of the interview.
Do we have to list the debts we have agreed to divide? About 30% of DivorceWriter customers list debts. The debts listed will appear on the settlement agreement that is included with your DivorceWriter document package. If no debts are listed, the settlement agreement will indicate that there are no debts to be divided.

The customer decides which debts, if any, to list, although Courts commonly expect debts related to real estate, vehicles, property with titles, and/or other valuable property to be listed as well as joint debts.
What if I don't know if I have property to list? If you need to add or remove property after receiving your documents, you have two options:
  1. Log into your account at https://www.divorcewriter.com/Home_Login.asp and make changes to your online interview responses. Then, contact customer service at info@divorcewriter.com to obtain copies of your updated documents at no extra charge. At that time, you can choose to either have them e-mailed to you or shipped via priority mail; or
  2. Log into your account and email your documents to yourself using the email button on the review page. Customize as needed and print.
What if I don't know if I have debts to list? If you need to add or remove debts after receiving your documents, you have two options:
  1. Log into your account at https://www.divorcewriter.com/Home_Login.asp and make changes to your online interview responses. Then, contact customer service at info@divorcewriter.com to obtain copies of your updated documents at no extra charge. At that time, you can choose to either have them e-mailed to you or shipped via priority mail; or
  2. Log into your account and email your documents to yourself using the email button on the review page. Customize as needed and print.
Do we have to list the debts we've agreed to divide? About 30% of DivorceWriter customers choose to list one or more debts.
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SPECIAL CIRCUMSTANCES
What if one spouse is in the military?
  • If a member of the armed forces of the United States has been stationed or resided in Virginia and has lived for a period of six months or more in Virginia before the filing of the divorce, then such person shall be presumed to be a resident of Virginia during that period of time.
  • Being stationed or residing in Virginia includes, but is not limited to, a member of the armed forces being stationed or residing upon a ship having its home port in Virginia or at an air, naval or military base located within Virginia over which the United States enjoys exclusive federal jurisdiction.
  • Any member of the armed forces of the United States who (i) at the time the divorce is filed is stationed in any territory or foreign country and (ii) was living in Virginia for the six month period immediately preceding his or her being stationed in such territory or country, shall be deemed to have been a resident of Virginia during the six months before the divorce filing.
Virginia Code Sec. 20-97

What if one spouse is living in a foreign country? If your spouse is able to receive documents in the mail and is willing to sign and return the necessary documents to you, his or her being outside of the U.S. should not be a barrier to you filing for and obtaining a divorce in Virginia.

For any documents requiring the notarized signature of a spouse living in a foreign country, consular officials at any U.S. embassy or consulate abroad can provide a service similar to the functions of a notary public in the United States.

If you need to enter a foreign address it is possible. When completing the DivorceWriter online interview, leave the state field as "state" and enter the city and country in the city field, such as "Toronto, Canada."
What if I have an out of state driver’s license or no license at all? If the spouse who files for divorce does not have a valid in-state driver’s license it may pose a problem if the Clerk requires one in order to prove that at least one spouse meets the residency requirements for filing for divorce. However, most Court Clerks don't require any form of identification when you file for divorce. If you have any additional questions concerning the identification requirements when filing for divorce, contact the Court Clerk.

Note: A Notary Public will almost always require some form of picture identification in order to notarize a signature.
What if my spouse and I don't live in the state shown on this page? If you and your spouse live in a different state than the one that is shown on this page, click the "State of Residence" box to the left to see whether DivorceWriter supports the state where you live.

If you and/or your spouse recently left the state shown on this page OR only one of you lives in this state, click the "Continue" button to the left to review the residency requirements for this state.
What if my spouse is in the military? Either you or your spouse must meet the residency requirements in a given state or be stationed there in order to file for divorce in that state. If both parties are willing to sign the papers, ending your marriage when a spouse is in the military is much like a regular divorce.
What if my spouse is unwilling to sign the divorce documents? DivorceWriter is a self-help divorce product for people who have reached an agreement on all issues, including division of property and debts as well as matters concerning any children they may have, and who are both willing to sign documents to end their marriage. If you and your spouse are still disputing any matters, or if you think your spouse may refuse to sign the necessary documents, do not use DivorceWriter.

If, after filing for divorce, your spouse becomes uncooperative or unwilling to sign the final documents, you should contact an attorney immediately.
My spouse is currently incarcerated. What address do I use? You may use the address at the facility where your spouse is currently incarcerated. DivorceWriter documents must be signed by both husband and wife. As long as your spouse is capable of receiving documents and signing them in front of a notary public, if required in your state, you can use DivorceWriter.
I received my DivorceWriter package today, but I'm not sure I want to file for divorce right away. How how long are these papers good for? Unsigned divorce documents do not have an expiration date per se. Applicable time periods begin to run on signed documents once the divorce is filed.

However, it is possible that changes in the law could occur at some point that might affect one or more documents or divorce filing procedures. If you decide to wait to file your documents for a significant period of time and are concerned that you may no longer have the most recent version we offer, DivorceWriter will provide you with another set at no additional charge.
My spouse is currently incarcerated. Can we still use DivorceWriter? DivorceWriter documents must be signed by both husband and wife. As long as your spouse is capable of receiving documens and signing them in front of a notary public, if required in your state, you can use DivorceWriter.
I am not sure my marriage was legal. Do I even need a divorce? DivorceWriter is for people who want to end their marriages. If you have any questions regarding the validity of your marriage, you may need to contact a lawyer.
How do we get documents notarized in a foreign country? The meaning of the term "notary" varies widely from country to country. To find a Notary Public outside of the U.S. who performs the type of notarization customarily performed by a Notary Public in the U.S., contact a consular official at any U.S. embassy or consulate abroad.
I can't find my spouse. Can I still use DivorceWriter? DivorceWriter is designed for couples who have reached an agreement on all issues and who are both willing and able to sign divorce papers. You cannot use DivorceWriter if you are unable to locate your spouse and should instead contact an attorney licensed to practice law in your state.
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ADDITIONAL RESOURCES
Where can I find the full-text version of the Virginia divorce statutes online?
Where can I find additional help? Additional help is available at: www.findlegalhelp.org
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